‘Oooo they’ve opened,’ I said. ‘I’m dying to find out what they do. I’m so tempted to pootle over and stick my head in and say hi, not to be creepy or anything, but I’ve been watching you set up and I’m dying to know what you guys do.’
‘Well, why don’t you?’ asked FC.
I didn’t have a reply really, so I roped him in and we pootled over. On first peek the inside had what appeared to be some sort of class, with people sitting on the floor around one person, and all their shoes were near the door. We concluded that it was some random class-type thing and nearly didn’t go in. Then we decided that no, we should go in, just to ask. It turned out to be a rather interesting photography printing place, (which also turned up on my facebook page yesterday, how spooky is that?) and the interesting looking boys who owned it were photographers! So we had a nice chat and I fangirlishly promised to keep coming back and so on.
Last Monday, at an alcoholic launch, I did the same thing, and ended up befriending a woman who teaches in a college here, another woman who writes on spirituality, and then four girls who do design and suchlike things, and a very pretty English boy who works in publishing.
What makes this remarkable is that I haven not done something like this–make friends with total strangers–since college. I can’t say why, but it’s a side of me that I thought had sunk into oblivion–for whatever reasons. Since I came to Delhi it’s been even harder. But it seems that the Inner Kitteh, as it were, is resurfacing. Rejoice ye all, and hide ya who fear the person who befriends you regardless ;) It is such a great feeling; I feel like I am coming back to life (ugh for the phrasing), and fulfilling all the promise of who I really am.